As Gary would say, “It’s ok not to be ok“

With Fundraising playing a vital role in ensuring CTM Mind can support residents of the Cwm Taf Morgannwg health board area with their mental health, it’s important to us, that we acknowledge the commitment of our dedicated fundraisers who make our work possible.

We are privileged to hear the many inspiring and sometimes difficult reasons, why our fundraisers raise money and awareness of our charity,  when we met Susan who organised a fundraiser in memory of her beloved friend Gary, we asked could we share her fundraising journey with you too.

Susan along with family and friends held an event at Taffs Well Ex-Servicemen’s club in memory of the late Gary in January 2024 with vocal artists The Big Guy and a disco.

In Susan’s own words she describes Gary, as an incredible man who had so much love and passion for his family and friends. She explained that Gary sadly lost his fight with mental health that no one knew he was battling.

Susan went on to pay tribute to Gary and her reasons for fundraising and said:

 

“We recently lost an amazing person who served his country with pride, he was an amazing loving Daddy and cared immensely for his friends and family with a huge smile, always. Yet he lost a battle with a mental illness only he knew he was fighting.”


“Gary protected everyone from his suffering.”

 

“This sad loss inspired us to raise funds and awareness to support the amazing charity Cwm Taf Morgannwg Mind.
This charity is reaching out supporting, educating and listening to those who are fighting this illness.”

As Gary would say, “It’s ok not to be ok”
“We are very proud to have raised £1,203 for this amazing charity, we lost someone who had struggled for a long time with mental health despite seeing him with a big smile and being there for everyone else, he was struggling himself.”
“We all saw the happy dotting dad who lived life to the fullest with his job taking him everywhere. Gary was a Sgt in the Royal Air Force. No one knew what he was battling with we didn’t know how much he was struggling. If only we had, if only he had asked help or just spoke to someone.”

“There are so many if only’s.”
“So many adults and children struggle and keep it to themselves, so we though we could  bring some awareness to everyone about Cwm Taf Morgannwg Mind as they help everyone.”

Talking is highly encouraged here at Cwm Taf Morgannwg Mind and the main reason we have our Chat To Me service. Chat To Me is our free mental health and wellbeing advice and support line which can be reached Monday to Friday 10am-4pm. To access this service, simply call us on 01685 707480 and press option 1. Or you can email us direct at chattome@ctmmind.org.uk.

Together with the support of their family and friends, this fundraiser raised over £2,000 which was split between ourselves and Scotty’s Little Soldiers, a charity for bereaved military children.

 

Together we can all make a difference! Join the fight for mental health!